The Divorce Recovery Process

Divorce is quite possibly the most difficult time of a persons life.  Not only does one have to deal with the feelings of loss, there is the hurt, resentment, jealousy and blame to cope with as well.  You may feel you're on an emotional roller coaster.  These conflicting emotions of pain, anger and guilt can be wildly confusing.  One inevitably bounces between the disappointment of the past and the uncertainty of the future.

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As common as divorce has become, the emotional and practical process of recovery is always a new and thoroughly confusing experience.  Every family is unique and every divorce different.  There is no set course for recovery; yet, many people do share certain common reactions and may pass through similar stages during the process of healing after a divorce. 

A Divorce Recovery Coach can help an individual avoid becoming tied to certain patterns that can slow or stop the healing process.  A Coach can help you understand what to expect, what is and is not considered normal and can help make the period after a divorce easier to endure.

For many, the end of the divorce process means the most painful and difficult transition is just beginning.  The purpose of a Divorce Recovery Coach is to help people navigate their way through the psychological landmines of divorce and to help them create a sense of control, stability and security through this experience.

Although often emotionally devastating, divorce does not have to be a failure but an opportunity to gain the support and safety of old and new friends, focus on accomplishing goals and direct energy toward developing a satisfying life.

A Coach recognizes that divorce is not a failure to be ashamed of, but a transition.  Often the divorce process leaves participants with a divorce hangover that makes completion of the grieving process difficult.  It can leave one feeling like they are not themselves.  The coaching process helps release any attachment to a person or past relationship and create a healthy, new identity.   The divorce hangover creates a disorientation requiring a substantial amount of emotional healing.  Working with a Coach who understands how to express these emotions in a nondestructive manner is the path to becoming centered and regaining peace of mind once again. 

Divorce Recovery Coaching

Divorce is not just the end of an old relationship.  Its the beginning of a new life full of exhilarating possibilities.  My hope as your Coach is that your divorce process will lead to a period of personal growth, independence and freedom.  You will learn to deal with the uncertainty of creating a new identity for yourself.  You will learn to forgive and move on, so you can attack life with passion and excitement. 

My job as your Coach is to decrease your recovery time and smooth the edges of the transition.  Achieving proper closure to the divorce process is grueling to say the least, but to attempt it alone is extremely difficult.

As your Coach, not only do I provide guidance, support and encouragement, I also work to empower you to move on toward new solutions and options.  The goal is to create a life driven by a sense of passion and fulfillment.  Once you are able to make peace with the transition, you may begin a richer, more fulfilling life.  For this to be accomplished, you have to come to terms with aloneness and re-learn how to be one before you can be two again.

Others before you have gone on to build a better life, have more satisfying relationships and a more stable home environment by working with a Coach.  Many have reaped benefits by working with a Coach by understanding that this powerful shift could be a catalyst for much needed changes in lifestyle, career, spirituality and home.  I know that balance and harmony are possible and I know how to get you to that point in your life. 

There is no reason to go through this alone.